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Hey, Couply Fit fam, welcome back to another episode.
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We have an incredible couple here.
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They are a husband and wife powerhouse here in Arizona.
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We cannot wait to tell you more about them.
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So I'm so excited.
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I mean, when we are whenever we have guests, we can't wait one to introduce them, but also to bring the valuable insights that you both have.
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So without further introduction, we want to introduce Jennifer Kaplan, founder and CEO of Evolve PR in Marketing, Anthony Farinacci, COO of Evolve PR.
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And just there's so much that I want to dive into.
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But starting off, Jennifer, your background, we're going to start there.
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ASU Hall of Fame Inductee, Ghost Sun Devils.
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I know we got that in common here.
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Always, always.
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Most influential women in business, Phoenix Business Journal, 40 under 40.
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And then also building Arizona's largest PR firm and just how incredible that is.
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Being an Arizona native, a community builder, connector.
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And Anthony, no, come on now.
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I said this earlier, but my guy, I mean, we talk about retired FBI, supervisory special agent.
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There's a lot of people that have never talked to a special agent before.
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So I already got so many questions of what you can share, right?
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Very privileged.
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28 years of law enforcement, which we appreciate your service.
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Thank you.
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MBA from U of A.
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So we got Wildcats.
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We got to talk about that.
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Oh my God.
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Duel in the Desert's coming up.
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It's coming out.
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Yeah, we'll be there.
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Oh.
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And then also being able to make that pivot from being in service to now doing incredible things as COO.
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So we can't wait to talk to you both and just hear the journey of just two amazing folks coming together, being married, but also just growing business.
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So thank you so much for joining us.
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Thanks for having us, really.
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Thank you.
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Yes, likewise.
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So what we typically like to do is start off with where you grew up, how you were raised, kind of that origin story for you.
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So Jennifer, we'll start with you and then we'll go over to you, Anthony.
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Yeah, born and raised not too far from where we are sitting right now in uh central Phoenix, and uh went to ASU, studied communications with an emphasis in public relations.
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So it was always my path.
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Well, I don't want to forget in high school I got senior most talkative.
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Oh, so you know, this was kind of like the journey that I was uh led to be.
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I used the example of Tiger Woods, you know, you see this picture of him when he was three with a golf club, and you're like, yeah, maybe someday this kid will be something.
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And sure enough, and so for me, I was that kid at three that, you know, my mom even said I was born kind of in that PR mode.
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So it's not work, it's you know, it's something I love and my passion.
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So at 30, I started Evolve.
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Um, I'm sorry, at 30, I started a company with a business partner for five years doing PR.
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Um, sold my equity to her to go on my own 16 years ago.
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Took a year and kind of went low profile.
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Uh, we ended amicably and just wanted to respect, you know, her.
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And then 15 years ago started Evolve.
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So just hired our 28th person.
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Yep, 140 people, 140 clients.
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So incredible.
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Yeah, it's really fun.
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But yeah, so I've never left, and this is home for me, and I love it in Arizona.
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Yes.
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Incredible story.
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Thank you so much for sharing.
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Anthony, love to hear from you.
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Yeah, so I'm an Air Force brat per se.
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I was born in Tucson, Arizona at Davis Montin Air Force Base.
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My dad was a career Air Force guy.
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Uh born there, grew up on the West Side out in Glendale.
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Uh, went to high school on the West Side.
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Yeah, I'm I'm from the West Side.
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Uh, grew up in Glendale, went to college on a baseball scholarship, went to uh Glendale community, went to Grand Canyon, where I graduated from, got a degree in finance.
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Um, but at that time, uh cops was a big show.
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So I used to watch that.
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I I really liked baseball.
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And I thought, hey, I could make a career being a police officer.
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So I actually started testing for police departments.
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Well, that was my that was my first choice, but uh I ended up being in law enforcement.
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I did that for five years down in Tucson, Arizona as a Pima County uh sheriff.
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Uh then I met a couple of FBI agents.
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They said, hey, why don't you uh test for the FBI?
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And I tested, and 10 months later I was at the FBI Academy where I was there for 23 and a half years.
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I ended up retiring out of FBI headquarters in Washington, D.C.
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uh as a supervisory special agent uh with the FBI.
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Loved the career, thought it was great.
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Um, and it was just a really a good career, uh honest career.
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So yeah, still as another athlete, so I just because you mentioned the baseball aspect.
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Tell us a little bit about just you know, a little bit about your baseball game, and we got to just you know hear a little highlight.
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Yeah, so so I I'm still waiting for the call to get drafted.
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I'm still waiting for this call.
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You and me both it never it never came.
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Yeah, so uh I played all four years.
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I was I was a solid college baseball player, uh, never got drafted.
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Tell them who you did play with and for.
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So so thank you, John.
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After after baseball ended, uh my dad, my whole life.
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I saw my dad growing up, he played for the Air Force softball team, men's fast pitch softball.
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Still plays at 84.
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And so and and so I I basically grew up with my dad playing men's fast pitch softball.
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So I would go to all his games and everything.
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And then post-college, didn't get the draft.
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Uh, my dad drafted me to play for his softball team.
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And and so I started playing at the lower levels.
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I got good enough to get to the open level.
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Uh, as a result of that, I got uh invited to the uh U.S.
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Olympic Training Center in Chula Vista uh to try out for the men's fast pitch softball team.
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Wow, where I ended up making the team and we went to the Pan American Games.
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Oh my gosh! I played on that team for probably five years, and we ended up, you know, I we I went I won a silver medal at the Pan American Games in in Winnipeg, Canada.
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I traveled the world playing men's fast pitch softball for team USA, supported by my FBI career.
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They gave me time off to go do this to represent the USA.
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So I was I was uh a pretty good athlete back in the day, and uh yeah, as a result of playing baseball, I ended up getting to play for team USA.
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That's great.
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Yeah, I can't believe you not gonna say that.
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I just want you to know moving.
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I'm doing that.
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It's gonna be the lead.
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You are that's PR.
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You've got to lead with that.
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That should have been that that should have been on my that should have been in my intro.
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Incredible, right?
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Incredible, incredible, not the U of A masters.
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We'll leave that down at the time.
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Yeah, we'll leave that, we'll leave that.
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The Wildcat part.
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We'll leave the wild, we'll we'll bring the USA part up, the wildcat part slightly down just for us.
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Exactly.
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Wow.
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That's incredible.
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Wow.
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It was good, it was a good time.
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Absolutely.
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Wow.
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Question for you.
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Just when it comes to making the pivot.
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So former athlete playing linebacker, I had an injury that uh shortened my career from being able to go pro in football.
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But how did you see the work that you put in as an athlete translate to your pivoting your career into law enforcement?
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Like, how did because there might be someone listening right now, I know what did they say?
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70 to 80 percent of high school uh athletes, all sports, the last time they'll play is in high school.
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So as you people are thinking about what's next, what's gonna be my next chapter, just any insider feedback on that?
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Yeah, I think what I really what drew me to law enforcement was the camaraderie.
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Um, and I felt like it was doing something great for the community.
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Um, you know, playing baseball, you're on a team, you're you're playing with nine other guys, you know, you know your entire team, but you're getting that camaraderie.
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And so when I moved into law enforcement, I really felt that same feeling getting getting into the law enforcement, either sheriff's department where I was at or the FBI, um, just really feeling that camaraderie with the rest of the team and doing good for the community.
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And you know, I it was it it even translated further when I got on the SWAT team for FBI Phoenix, or excuse me, FBI El Paso.
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I was on the SWAT team there.
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And that was just another tighter knit of uh of people uh to be part of, and so that was just something I really enjoyed, and and I really enjoyed that career.
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And I think being an athlete helped me get into law enforcement, helped me understand how to work amongst a team, how to also lead other people that are of the same level that I was at.
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And it was just it was just something I thought was really uh you know a good thing in my life.
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So yeah.
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I love that.
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Yeah, thank you.
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Thank you so much.
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That's fantastic.
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So now I'm sure our audience is gonna want to know how did you guys meet?
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Oh, yeah, when did you all meet, and then kind of give us your love story.
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All right.
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It's like who's gonna go first?
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So I'll give you my version of it.
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There's always two versions.
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We do have two versions of the biggest.
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We have two story, but just two different versions.
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So basically, we met online, we met on Bumble.
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Um, I was living in Washington, D.C.
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So I was living in Washington, D.C.
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I was I was single, I was obviously older in life uh when we met.
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And basically, I came into town for my nephew's wedding, and I was on the app, and the app basically, you know, put you in in your same location as as where you're at.
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So um I swiped on Jen, and then she swiped on me, and then she reached out to me because on Bumble, they have to reach out to you.
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I love it.
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Yeah, so we had a lot of banter because she was from ASU, I was U of A guy, Grand Kitty guy.
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And so we had a lot of banter on that.
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And basically, from that day, I I would say that we basically stayed in contact every day for the for the next six years.
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Wow.
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Here we are six years later.
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September was so truly, it was it was it was I was at my nephew's wedding and and we were uh chatting uh on the on the app.
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So yeah.
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Yeah, well, my I'll I'll pick up from there.
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Okay.
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She's like my own.
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She's gonna give you more detail.
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So uh he wasn't living here, yeah, and here I wanted to meet someone that lived here.
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And um we we went a little bit back and forth.
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He would come back into town to see his mom and his family that's here, and I would go visit him in DC.
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And then COVID happened.
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And so about six months after we started dating, and everybody went home, like the immediate thing.
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So here I'm dating this person for about six months, and the FBI sent everybody home as well.
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So he said, Well, since I've got this girlfriend now that I'm dating, and my mom and Anthony has a daughter that's 25 um now, and can I just spring?
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But I was getting ready to retire too.
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So that was the other caveat on that.
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I at that time, that was in November, December of 19 or 20 years.
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Then we met this COVID was 20.
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20, and then I was getting ready to retire.
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I knew I was eligible to retire, I wanted to retire, and so that was another uh catalyst.
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So he said, Can I work from home and be where the people are that I want to be with?
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So he loaded up a car, drove because there was no flights.
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He couldn't flight.
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He was there we couldn't the highway was empty, it was me and truckers.
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Oh wow.
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So he drove here and uh then we went back to his retirement, and um, on an immediate, he his mom has a separate casita.
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So he didn't know what he I mean, this all happened so quickly.
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So he's in the casita, and um, everything's fine.
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We're dating, life is great.
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We go back to DC for his retirement, which unfortunately was a little modified because of COVID, but it was still a great celebration.
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We had six people at my retirement, right?
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We had more than that.
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I'd have nine.
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You need to have another one.
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Yeah, I think so.
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Another retirement.
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Remember, we had to be you had to be spaced six feet apart.
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That's true.
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Yeah.
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So it was it was it was because you don't want a super spreader, right?
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It was crazy too.
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Yeah.
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Oh, yeah, and it was scary.
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Like nobody hearing anything.
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Yeah.
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So we fly back to DC and we get home, and his mom says to him, You have to quarantine for 14 days.
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You can't stay here.
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That's right.
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I'm like, well, where are you where are you gonna go?
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So he never left.
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Literally, uh, he we came back from that trip and his mom, you know, respect to her health.
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Yes.
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Uh, so he came to my place, and then yeah.
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So at that time, obviously COVID makes you or breaks you, right?
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As a couple.
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And so I think it really it it uh we bonded and learned a lot about each other in a quick amount of time.
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In a short amount of time.
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So yeah, it was it was it was it was basically we went all in pretty quick and had to go all in, and uh I think it really worked out.
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Yeah, so the other little piece to that though, that retirement trip, and um then we came back that Monday along the way of us dating, as he knew he was gonna retire from the FBI, a lot of his peers um looked to doing cyber security.
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And so he was looking to go into that and been doing interviews and and pursuing.
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However, I was like, Well, we're really growing at Evolve.
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What do you think about you know bringing your skills to Evolve?
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Right.
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And we thought, and at this point, all that moving in, COVID, all that we were only dating six to eight months at that time.
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Yeah.
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And we're like, what's the worst that can happen?
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You have a great resume.
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I have my business.
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If it doesn't work out, we'll go our separate ways.
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We'll go our separate ways.
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So that weekend we came home that his mom said you need a quarantine.