Sept. 16, 2025

Episode 50: What Really Goes On When You Dine Out

Episode 50: What Really Goes On When You Dine Out

Kurt and Deanna have spent a combined 15 years in food and beverage, and in this episode, they share the unfiltered stories that shaped them. Think 3:30 AM airport shifts, holidays spent at work, juggling tables while smiling through exhaustion, and customers whose “tips” were only kind words on the way out.

They also open up about what those years taught them — patience, quick thinking, teamwork, and a deep respect for the people who keep restaurants running. You’ll hear about celebrities passing through, dropped plates, tense moments smoothed over, and the incredible mix of people who work side by side in hospitality.

Whether you’ve worked in a restaurant or just enjoy eating out, you’ll walk away seeing the person taking your order in a whole new light.

00:00 - Welcome to Server Life

06:41 - Airport Food Service Realities

16:12 - Security Challenges and Celebrity Encounters

21:52 - Claim Jumper Days and Host Duties

29:32 - Server Life Challenges and Holidays

33:10 - Memorable Customer Encounters

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Hey Cupply Fit fam, Welcome back to another episode of the Cupply Fit podcast.

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Today is going to be a little bit different than our previous episodes.

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Kurt and I are going to be speaking about the food and beverage and hospitality industry, which we both worked in for almost 15 years.

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So we've got all the tea for you, so you definitely want to tune into this episode.

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Let's get into it.

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Oh boy, oh, my goodness.

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If you've ever wondered what's gone on in the kitchen, or, as we say, boh, which is back of house we're going to be opening up those doors for you so you can take a little peek behind and see some of the craziness that goes on behind the scenes so two hashtags that come to my mind is server life server life that's the first one, and the second one's going to be tipping culture.

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Tipping culture.

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Now, yes, we'll get into tipping culture, because I do feel it's gone a little bit out of the.

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The game has changed with AI.

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The game has changed.

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The game has changed.

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Okay, so let's first talk about the reality of food and beverage.

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Right, Like if you've never worked in food and beverage before, or even in the retail hospitality space number one, I'm going to just put it out there.

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I feel like it should almost be a prerequisite for everybody to work a minimum of six months, but preferably a year, in some sort of customer service, because it is not for the faint hearted and you learn so much, but then you also like become a better person by working on on the other side.

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So some of the realities of food and beverage long shifts, doubles you're working, weekends and holidays you are having.

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There's the customer service aspect, but then there's also the internal chaos of what's happening just when it comes to, maybe, leadership or your coworkers.

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I mean, it's constant.

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And then also the fact that you have to rely on your coworkers in some scenarios, especially for you up at Phoenix Sky Harbor Airport.

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If you want to give a little bit more context, dive on in.

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Yeah, so just really quick, when we like kind of flashing back, phoenix Sky Harbor Airport cafe coffee shop, like wine bar, was a business, family owned and operated that I had a chance to like come into and help out coming out of college and so for me that was my first time ever being in food and beverage right, ever working in a restaurant or fast cafe style.

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So it's, you know, smaller five, six hundred square feet, right, but it's the airport.

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So there's a whole nother uh complexity of like getting through security, getting out of security, parking even employees right, and like security badging, all of these other pieces and elements and airports are owned by the city.

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That's correct.

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I don't think people realize.

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So there's also a political factor to it as well.

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City-owned, all of the different elements right and being able to make sure you're upholding what the standards are right, like, even something that's just unique.

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Most restaurants have a set Monday through Friday or Monday through Sunday schedule right?

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Chick-fil-a, everybody knows, is closed on Sundays.

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Dif right chick-fil-a, everybody knows is closed on Sundays.

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Difference with the airport is that, like, everything is open 24, not 24 7, but you're open every day of the week, and it's also based on like when the flights are coming and going.

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So, like, there's so many variables.

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But I love what you said about everyone needing to work in food and beverage, because it was so.

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It's such a humbling experience seriously when you're in customer service, and so for me, like I'm just thinking of my journey of like I didn't like coffee, but I'm working in the coffee shops.

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I had to be a barista, learn the process, but also certified barista be a certified barista, learn how to go through not just the coffee process and that flow, but then training people.

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Working with people also in food and beverage, where there's a lot of people that you're working with that this is their first job, so naturally, first job, minimum wage.

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People are not showing up, they're no calling, no showing.

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They're showing up and giving the worst effort and you're just like dude.

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You might not even be here, but at the same time, I need.

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I need someone to help correct, but can you also explain to you a little bit about the or more so go into detail about the work hours?

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Right, because for you, because you're opening.

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We're not even talking about a cloping, and if you, if you're in the food and beverage, you know what that is.

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That's when you do a close, you close and you open.

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Those are the toughest, but because that goes into what you're talking about.

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You're making a great point and rave for park.

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I was going to ask the longest.

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What's the longest shift that you worked Like?

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What was that long day like?

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But one of the things I mentioned the screens or the flights and being able to be available when they're there.

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Oh, opening shift can be 3.30 in the morning, because it's also 8 am.

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And you're there.

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There On, like shift starts at 3.30 am and I used to remember and for me I always again if you're not excited, you're not invited and you're in a server scenario.

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So you got to bring I'm in a leadership role.

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I got to bring the enthusiasm, I got to get the energy going.

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But it's 3.30 am, am, am, and you got to set the tone.

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And this is every day.

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It's not like, oh, like, I've got a 3.30, I got a 5 am flight and I got to wake up at 3.30 one day.

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Like, no, this is your schedule.

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And when you work at 3.30, like your day starts the night before because you can't like you, you're on your feet the entire shift, the entire day.

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You know it's eight, nine, 10 hours and if somebody doesn't show for the start of the lunch shift as the manager, you're staying on.

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It just turned into a double.

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You know you're working three to whenever.

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So, no, it's a humbling experience.

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Yes, no, you're absolutely correct.

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So before because before we dive into my experience, we can talk just more Like we'll do your experience and then we'll go into mine so, for your experience in the airport, talk a little bit about the travelers, because we all, first off, we've all traveled in the airport.

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We know how chaotic it is to try to rush through your uh, the screening in the beginning.

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First off.

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That's just so crazy in and of itself, because you, it's just, it's an assembly line, yes, but you're like you're, if you don't have the tsa pre-check right, you're trying to take your shoes off your belt, your phone, you're this and people are behind you.

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It's just, uh, there's a lot happening, um, but if you can talk a little bit about the travelers that come through, how many travelers did you see?

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I guess maybe per day, maybe on average.

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So travelers that you see are like customers that are coming through.

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I mean you can see anywhere from 700, 1,000 plus in a shift.

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In a shift.

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Or in a day, like it just depends on the day and the flow.

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But if you think about what that looks like, though especially when you talk about starting at 3.30 in the morning and then you start talking about coffee to people is sacred.

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Like people and coffee, like like people in coffee, like I've had somebody like almost throw a drink not, you know, ain't nobody throwing nothing at me but basically like kind of shoved it back in the window Like I don't want this and it spills, and I'm like did they just?

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did they just throw that at?

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me the disrespect.

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But when people, it comes to their coffee, and then also, just to put it in perspective, in all the baristas out there are going to feel this.

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But when you're pulling the espresso shots, it has to.

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It can pull right or wrong.

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Right, it's not like alcohol.

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Where it's like, oh, you're just pouring a shot, like no, it has to, like you have to.

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You know, tempt the espresso shot correctly, pull from the machine.

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But when you're doing that level of volume, at any point in time, the espresso can just not pull correctly.

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Right, this is any like coffee shot.

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So if it stops, starts pulling, starts pulling a little bit bitter, or the taste isn't hitting right, you could have a stretch where each customer is Darn.

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it feels like it's a riot.

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People are looking at you like it's a betrayal.

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Yes, how dare you Take a sip out of?

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this cappuccino and they're like.

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This is disgusting.

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What is this?

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And then just the process of whether someone wants a refund or they want to switch their order the line.

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It's just the process of like, whether someone wants a refund, they want to switch their order, the line everybody's in the window like smacking their hand on the counter Where's my coffee?

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Where's my?

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my flight's leaving and then you have the people that order things, knowing that their flight is in your flight is boarding right now and you want to come up here and order a double caramel macchiato, iced, and it's like that's going to take five to ten minutes and you know you're bored in two right, and there's a line.

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So it's just like those types of things are really, uh, they're frustrating.

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And then, obviously, if you are short a person or something else and you have I'm just talking coffee, we're not talking about food so you can get somebody's coffee, right, but then they're missing a bagel.

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Oh, it's just, you know there's all the cream cheese for the cream cheese, or the knife or the nap.

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There's just all of these little pieces, and so I think people don't always think about that.

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But then it's like this, this rush, and you're dealing with the fact that people, too, feel like they're getting ripped off a little bit at the airport because the prices are more expensive typically so expensive it's more expensive.

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How was this?

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water, seven dollars.

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I don't understand.

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I don't understand you get within those airport walls, things can change they do, and they do okay.

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Now talk a little bit more about the stress that comes with the airport.

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So, whether that's dealing with customers, or that's the employees, or obviously we're in a family-owned business, so that's a whole another level of stress.

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But so yeah, so I one the family-owned side.

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A funny thing about the family-owned side is that, like you know, anytime you have your parents that are your boss or those dynamics like it just adds another dynamic you know, so like.

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I still can see my dad reached out to me like hey, numbers, hey, he's like watching the screen from home.

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Like hey know, hey, that line is looking pretty long out there.

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Like, hey, I'd be able to get it down a little faster if I wasn't on the phone right.

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So like you have those elements, but then also like what people don't think about when you're dealing with the airport and I'm excited to talk about your experience too but you can't just bring things and drop them off.

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Like there's a whole flow of like.

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It has to go through a certain you know a process and like getting things sent over, sent over and like the delivery process.

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It's like if you run out of avocados, it's not like always a quick fix of like let me just run and grab something real quick and come back in.

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Like you gotta go out of security park car.

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You know sky train you know SkyTrain shuttle.

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You guys have a commissary right.

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There's a commissary where, like things are at a separate area because again in the airport.

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You can't house, everything you can't house.

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It's not like being at what?

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600 square feet 600 square feet is not enough to do the whole operation, so you're having to be off-site and bring things on, so like there's just so many complexities there.

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And then that really I would say the biggest one is the hours Just not being consistent on those hours because you need to adjust.

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And it's kind of that idea of if there's more flights, there's more people, there's more business.

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You want to be able to adjust.

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And when you asked about people, there's so many different walks of life in the airport and just to give you examples of things I've seen, I was just going to say we're going to go into memorable moments and lessons learned.

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Okay, well, I'm going to tell you a memorable moment right now.

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If you ever see somebody's hands like covered with a jacket, just know they're in handcuffs underneath there, right when you see like the sheriff or like the airport because, like you know, you'll have like I didn't know, like you don't really know how people travel that are like either being arrested or being like extradited.

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But when you see, you know somebody come through the line or you know, and they're literally like hands cuffed but there's somebody that's taking them on the plane, and that was probably one of the biggest surprises.

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I was like what am I watching?

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Is this a Con Air?

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Yeah, you know, with Nicolas Cage, I'm like what is this?

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So that was one, probably one of the second other biggest ones, because we had wine and things like that.

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You would have people that like Overindulge.

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People will overindulge.

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But what was crazy was that, like I outright, there were people that were, because Arizona is also a spot that people like rehab centers.

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Yes, so, like I had two or three people that were like camped out at our location because they were waiting to pick them up for like a rehab center once they arrived in Phoenix and they didn't want to go.

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So they're literally like this is like, you know, not your last meal, but like your last drink right before you get picked up by like rehab.

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So that was I mean, there was a lot of those types of experiences.

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We're just like whoa yes, something else that came to my mind, too, was the flooding.

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Do you remember it flooded?

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anytime you have something that just.

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I mean anytime you have something crazy where it's like flooding or I mean probably one of the craziest ones was also the was a super bowl or it was a merger.

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It was like an airline merger.

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Without going into details, it was an airline merger we were doing.

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We had like the uh, the meal or the catering, but it was like hundreds of, and this was in addition to the normal business flow.

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I think I might've worked 24 straight hours.

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Like it was nuts.

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Yeah, and so also to quickly add to what you're saying, I also worked with you.

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Many hats, worked with you and your family.

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That was the time that I was working three jobs but worked with you and I was the hiring coordinator.

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But then I also write you're in the family business, so you're doing it all and I worked that merger with you and I'll never forget that it was a.

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I think we were in 24-7 for.

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Like two, three days Not seven.

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So 24-3, right, Like three days of 24 hours, and you're just putting together.

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I think American Airlines was merging with United.

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It was one of the mergers.

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It was.

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It was one of the mergers, it was a big opportunity.

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But it was a huge opportunity, but it was so much work and uh.

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The other thing, too, is people don't realize the badging process that you have to go through, and I'll never forget when I had my badge expired.

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Do you remember where you went?

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I think you were with me, my badge expired and I tried to go through because I'm just like, oh, I'm, I do this all the time.

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I'm coming, coming through, I'm using my employee badge.

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They thought that I had a firearm Like they came up and the amount of security that came over, they said it's expired.

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How did you not know, asking me all these questions?

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We need your finger.

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I was like wait a minute, this is, but it's the airport, it's the security, uh, when it comes to just travel and those things.

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So I remember that, but I think you also need to talk about there were multiple times where the airport shut down.

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There there was a shutdown there was.

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There were a couple of shutdowns active.

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There was active there was an active shooter that left tempe, drove through the airport, ran through yes, like not barricade, but like the parking yes, you know deal is now in the airport.

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Ran through like not barricade but like the parking.

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You know deal is now in the airport on the loose.

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Yes, they're like shut down With a gun, basically like with a gun.

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They were like hide everybody in the back.

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I remember that.

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I mean when you talk, and again.

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You were like there's an active shooter.

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And you're a manager and you're managing a business that and you got employees.

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People are scared Like man.

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That was super frightening, you know what I mean.

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And just having to go through that experience and navigate it from a leadership standpoint like it was not a normal day at the office.

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That's not a normal day.

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And the other thing, too, is people don't realize that there's what's going on within the airport, where you know you got there's bank right.

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There's a bank in there.

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Yeah, so there's a bank in there.

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Yeah, yeah, so there's a bank in there multiple oh okay, multiple banks, yeah.

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So a couple of those things, right you just things.

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Where again you?

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don't have to leave necessarily.

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Go to the bank like you go and there's an area where you can go and change out.

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Get changed all the things.

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These are all things.

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It's like its own city it really is running city within a city correct and people view it like, oh, I'm going to the airport to fly, but think about all the people that are managing yes, and the business and doing it at the city level.

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It's, it's crazy to think about it's, it's, yeah, no, it's definitely wild.

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Um, are there any lessons learned?

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Yes, and then also, how does it, or any of these lessons, uh, do you see them in your leadership style today, or even where you are right, where you are professionally?

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yeah, 100.

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So I would say, um, one of the biggest lessons.

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I learned a lot about leadership in that moment, based on how I was led by other leaders, but then also seeing what people responded to so I were.

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I mean, you talk about working with people from different walks of life employees that are coming from the reservation, employees that are like, hey, I'm home from college.

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Employers are like, hey, I'm a lifetime food and beverage server worker and I'm like and don't forget, I was a hiring coordinator so I'm trying to get you, come on, trying to give me some top talent.

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I used to work over at Freddy's.

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I'm like okay, so you have some food and beverage experience.

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You know how to make the custard.

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You can do it.

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Okay, we can do that.

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We deal with different people, relating and connecting with people from all walks of life.

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That was something that was really big, yes, um, so that one there.

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But then also I would say, a big, a big lesson is just also realizing how good you have it, like me waking up, even me going into the office.

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I didn't have to go through the security and all of those things.

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Working remote, it's like you can just jump on the computer.

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It's like it used to take an hour or 40 minutes to get into work and then get settled and badge in and all of the processes.

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So just more so like the gratitude, but also appreciating the experience how important a customer service is, learned a ton of lessons about, just like reviews and the experience and really improving the customer journey.

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So like, yeah, I learned a ton, but it definitely something I wouldn't like.

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I wouldn't go backwards, but I learned a lot.

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It definitely something I wouldn't go backwards, but I learned a lot.

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But also you incorporated social media.

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That was a really big one, because that was one of the things that surprised me about the airport was the amount of, like, celebrities celebrities that come through.

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Who are some people?

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we had Cedric.

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The Entertainer Michael Phelps used to come through on a regular you know, grab a breakfast burrito.

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We had Sage Steele.

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Um, yes, we had um lightweight boxing champion.

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Uh, I mean, I mean a ton of people.

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I mean I can.

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I can keep going, yeah, a lot, a lot of football players, a lot of like you know guys that I know that I play with and things that was stopped through.

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But that was something that was a game changer was posting to social media and the awareness around like we're the spot to be if you're in B9 and come through the airport on American Airlines.

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So that was great to be able to create more awareness within the business too, and clearly we do a lot with social media.

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Yeah, clearly we do a lot with social media.

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Full circle.

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I would say I learned a lot.

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Yes, all right.

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Anything else you want to add about your experience?

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Yeah, I mean, I only spent a couple years compared to how many you know.

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You put in about a 10 piece and worked all throughout college.

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So shout out to the Backlot team.

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We appreciate y'all, but I want to hear more about your experience.

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So can you tell me?

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I mean and let's just also talk about you know you were in the thick of it.

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I was in the airport, but at least it was more secure.

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I remember your job.

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I mean, how many times did the police come over there?

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And you know things.

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You were in a what do they call it?

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A high traffic area, a hot zone.

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Tell us more.

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So this wasn't my first job, this was actually my second job.

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So I started gosh, I was 17, about to turn 18.

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And so in Arizona you're not able to actually serve until you're 19.

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Just serve alcohol and those things.

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So you can to actually serve until you're 19.

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Just serve alcohol and those things.

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So you can't actually serve until you're 19.

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So I started at 17, and it's also because I was going to college at the same time, but I also was out of my house.

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So I moved out when I was 17.

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But obviously if you move out like, you've got to get a J-O-B.

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So I went to where I was living.

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Right around the corner was Arizona Mills Mall.

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Arizona Mills Mall has a reputation for being a little rowdy.

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Well, I'll just put it to you like this I saw on the news there was a shootout at the food court.

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Yes.

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And I'm not talking about basketball shootout.

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Yes.

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So that already tells you a little bit about the mall and and yes it's also an area where you got to be careful because they I think some like sex trafficking and like things like that where you know you got to be, have your head on a swivel, people getting abducted yes, 100.

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Okay, so uh started there at 17 and I started as a host, which was humble beginnings very humble, right, a host, and then I was able to work my way up to a lead host and so I had a team underneath me.

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It was me and two other people.

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We were leads, and so you're manning the front, but if you really think about it, you're this is front of house, but you are essentially the QB for the restaurant, because you have to really look at everybody's section, make sure that you're not giving too many tables to one person.

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You have to know who your strongest servers are.

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You have to know each server's strengths as well and then also be able to direct people in the way that you want.

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If you know that we had a large um dining room, but then we also had a really big bar area to happy hours popping.

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I mean, we had a really great happy hour.

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People used to love it.

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So I have to make sure that I'm directing people, because I may only have, you know, one bartender and one server in the bar.

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I can't just slam everyone over there for happy hour.

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So again, right, you're the QB.

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You have to really learn and understand, and there were quite a few things that happened.

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When you're front of house because you are the face right You're the first thing that people see.

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So some of my quote-unquote duties right were to-go orders.

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So I had to be in charge of to-go orders, oh that's serious.

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So you have to make sure everyone has all of their food.

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But again Y'all were a scratch kitchen, right.

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We were.

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We were 70% scratch kitchen and, if I didn't already say this, claim jumper.

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So at the we're owned privately.

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But then we sold to Landry's, probably when we gosh, when I was like five or six years in.

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So things obviously changed because we started going corporate Landry's, the gentleman that owns that.

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He owns the Houston Rockets.

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It was part of Mastro's Chart House, a few of those concepts, but anyway.

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So I was a lead host.

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To-go orders you have to clean the bathrooms.

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Very humbling.

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You got to clean the bathroom, you got to glove up.

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Yeah, you have to go outside and I had to pick all the cigarette butts.

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Oh my God, all the cigarette butts.

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People would not know that that's a part of the hostess's duties.

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I would think that's delegated, if there was any gum, any gum or anything.

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We were famous for our root beer candies.

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They used to be all over the place Wrappers, all those things.

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So you have to pick all that up.

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You have to make sure the front is looking tidy, and those things.

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But then you're also in charge of how the dining room is going to function.

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So that was a whole other thing.

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But then you're also dealing with back of house.

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To your point.

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People are coming from all walks of life give us a couple examples there were people where that were like me, that were in college and we're just starting out, so we're you know some to your point.

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This is their first job.

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This was my, my second job, but then we also had people who were going through their master's degree.

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That were some people that were just lifelong servers.

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They were literally 50s and 60s out there hustling and bustling into it getting to it, but then you have back a house.

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I mean, you know less customer facing less.

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They're not the face facing.

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Uh, you know, we had a couple one dude, you know he, he just got out the pin for murder, which was crazy.

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I don't know how he was, so nice though he was crazy.

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Check that off on your job application.

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Really, really nice.

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But he also, but he became a lead, like he was the one that was in charge of making sure the line shows you being able to work with all walks of life.

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Everybody's got a story, oh all walks of life.

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All walks of life, so, and everyone has a story.

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Um, and everyone has a story.

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The other thing, too, is when I was promoted from being lead server to then going to being a uh, I'm sorry a lead hostess to being a server.

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That's when you start getting.

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You're in the thick of it now.

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I mean, you're in the absolute thing.

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So I was 19.

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So from 19 to about 26, I was working as a server All through our college too, right?

00:24:33.368 --> 00:24:34.855
Oh, oh, yeah, all through our college for sure what's the longest shift.

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You worked, uh, 13 hours, but that was typical.

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Yeah, because, don't forget, we, I'm working.

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So what?

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My?

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I went to school Tuesdays and Thursdays all day, so those are my days that I am only focused on school.

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I didn didn't work those days.

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Every other day I'm working.

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So I worked Monday night, wednesday night, a double Friday, a double Saturday and then Sunday morning.

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So I mean, you're working, I was working all the time and so how many football games did you go to at ASU as a student?

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I didn't go to one, I didn't tailgate, I didn't go to one.

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But you know, transparently parties.

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Oh, I made it.

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That's after work, but it just shows like the work was a grind.

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No, work's a grind.

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I wasn't getting home until 1130 midnight.

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So you're really rallying to make it to the party after work.

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Oh yeah, your girl's got the energy.

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I can make it.

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What are we doing, girls, I'll be there.

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So, uh, there's that, but what you're, but when, when you are a server again, you're talking about coffee is sacred.

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We're talking food is scratch.

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It's scratch, but it's sacred.

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And we had a large country, I mean it was five or six solid pages pages, and you have to know that thing in and out.

00:25:46.750 --> 00:25:48.779
You have to know how to make modifications right.

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Each person's very different.

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I have a dairy allergy, I'm gluten free, I'm this, I'm that.

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So you have to know how to make modifications right.

00:25:52.541 --> 00:25:53.051
Each person's very different.

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I have a dairy allergy, I'm gluten free, I'm this, I'm that.

00:25:53.799 --> 00:25:57.637
So you have to be able to know the ingredients in each um each dish.

00:25:57.637 --> 00:26:01.951
But then, on top of that, you're dealing with people on their worst day, on their best day.

00:26:01.971 --> 00:26:03.174
So give us a couple of experiences.

00:26:03.174 --> 00:26:04.926
So I know you've had quite a few.

00:26:04.926 --> 00:26:05.828
We've talked about this a little bit.

00:26:05.828 --> 00:26:07.932
What are some of the experiences that you've seen?

00:26:07.932 --> 00:26:12.214
Like I know I'm just going to throw a couple of things out, I want you to shed a little more light on them.

00:26:12.214 --> 00:26:13.928
I think you've seen a few divorces.

00:26:14.669 --> 00:26:14.848
Yes.

00:26:14.930 --> 00:26:15.309
A few.

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Interventions.

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Interventions.

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What else has any heart attacks?

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Has anybody?

00:26:21.809 --> 00:26:22.049
Yes.

00:26:22.451 --> 00:26:26.019
Come on, so give us Heart attacks A gentleman.

00:26:26.964 --> 00:26:30.297
We've had a few people choke oh no what did somebody choke on?

00:26:30.297 --> 00:26:33.406
I mean, you name it anything like anything.

00:26:33.406 --> 00:26:35.130
Oh man, piece of steak.

00:26:35.130 --> 00:26:35.692
So what's what?

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was the most, what was the one most memorable?

00:26:38.577 --> 00:26:45.935
Or the thing that stood out the most, probably good or bad, but like something that stood out to you the most, like the most, like memory, like I'll never forget.

00:26:45.955 --> 00:26:54.407
That shift or that day I'll never forget that well, a lot of it is again when, when you're a strong server, you get the brunt of everything.

00:26:54.407 --> 00:26:59.484
So I'll never forget it was three servers and it was a labor day, a memorial day.

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So again, people leave Arizona.

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It's too hot out of nowhere.

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We were slammed I'm talking a party of 25 walks in, you're taking all I had.

00:27:09.712 --> 00:27:11.622
I will never forget I had a party of 25 walks in, you're taking all I had.

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I will never forget I had a party of 25 walk in and I also was taking care of 10 tables at the same time, to the point where our GM and our manager had to literally become servers because it was only three of us.

00:27:24.488 --> 00:27:28.628
Now, don't get me wrong, the three of us were strong and we're probably the strongest servers, but there was no way.

00:27:28.628 --> 00:27:31.295
I was literally just running around, just running around, I'm like listening, and they just got to a point.

00:27:31.295 --> 00:27:34.394
I was like you get it when you get it I don't know, I don't know what to tell you.

00:27:34.756 --> 00:27:35.820
I can you get it when you get it.

00:27:35.820 --> 00:27:40.814
I'm trying my hardest, but, um, there were a couple of those intervention, the divorces.

00:27:40.814 --> 00:27:42.416
We had a lot of baby showers.

00:27:42.416 --> 00:27:44.346
Um, we were open on thanksgiving.

00:27:44.346 --> 00:27:47.832
So that's what people don't realize is you're also working on holidays.

00:27:47.832 --> 00:27:51.939
So I I didn't spend a Thanksgiving with my family for nine years, 10 years.

00:27:51.939 --> 00:27:53.141
Wow, no Thanksgiving.

00:27:53.141 --> 00:27:58.773
We were open Christmas Eve too, so Christmas Eve wasn't shared at all, that's my favorite holiday.

00:27:59.015 --> 00:27:59.769
I know and remember.

00:27:59.769 --> 00:28:04.053
I used to come to your house afterwards on Thanksgiving and I'm just like I'm so tired Exhausted.

00:28:04.133 --> 00:28:12.366
I'm exhausted Because you say it's a.

00:28:12.366 --> 00:28:13.151
You know it's like 11 to 9.

00:28:13.151 --> 00:28:14.517
So, anyways, but there was just some cool experiences.

00:28:14.517 --> 00:28:27.388
Again, being close to ASU I was able to, you know, we had the Oregon Ducks come in, we had Washington State, we had the Beavers, so like we also get to be a part of that culture too, which was really cool People that were dining in, but we used to have people that would again get you drunk.

00:28:27.388 --> 00:28:28.691
They're trying to fight servers.

00:28:28.691 --> 00:28:40.118
There's a lot of drug use that happens also back of house that people don't realize, Like in food and beverage there is a lot of drug and alcohol abuse happening.

00:28:41.246 --> 00:28:42.690
It's people pouring a shot and taking a shot.

00:28:42.710 --> 00:28:44.013
Oh my gosh, you have no idea.

00:28:44.013 --> 00:28:47.611
It's wild Trying to think what else.

00:28:47.611 --> 00:28:51.914
But then there's also the things right, the verbal tip, where you literally broke your back.

00:28:51.974 --> 00:28:54.010
That's a good one, that that that right there, the verbal tip.

00:28:54.010 --> 00:28:58.056
You broke your back trying to wait on somebody you were the best.

00:28:58.116 --> 00:28:58.762
I'm like oh shoot.

00:28:58.762 --> 00:29:03.967
Okay, I already know this is about zero on the tip line, it's like 5%.

00:29:03.967 --> 00:29:08.594
It's like y'all do you realize that I'm getting paid $3.75?

00:29:08.634 --> 00:29:08.875
an hour?

00:29:09.015 --> 00:29:11.618
I don't get a paycheck and we're in a different era.

00:29:13.005 --> 00:29:16.167
This is not you going up to the kiosk placing your order at.

00:29:16.167 --> 00:29:17.814
Mcdonald's and the food's getting dropped off.

00:29:17.814 --> 00:29:23.314
Someone is waiting serving you, remembering your name, remembering maybe not your name, but what you ordered.

00:29:23.314 --> 00:29:24.548
What are the things?

00:29:24.548 --> 00:29:25.491
How can I help you?

00:29:25.491 --> 00:29:29.449
Sitting on you for an hour plus and you walk out of there and don't tip.

00:29:29.449 --> 00:29:34.762
But there's a lot of people that money was funny and literally they go out with just enough money to pay for the meal.

00:29:34.782 --> 00:29:35.063
All the time.

00:29:35.083 --> 00:29:37.852
That happened all the time, and don't have enough money for the tip that happened all the time.

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Come on now.

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You can't be out on Valentine's Day on your way, no tip.

00:29:41.473 --> 00:29:57.105
Come on, can't do it how somebody's trying to survive to your point where they're not making money off the hourly, it's all off the tips.

00:29:57.105 --> 00:29:57.522
The verbals are not cutting it.

00:29:57.522 --> 00:29:58.102
The verbals are not cutting it.

00:29:58.102 --> 00:29:59.534
Uh, let me see there were also just a cool, some cool other things.

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Right, like gotta wait on some celebrities.

00:30:00.329 --> 00:30:01.093
Chris brown came in.

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We have come on you.

00:30:01.915 --> 00:30:03.924
Yeah, I don't think you ever told me chris brown came in.

00:30:03.924 --> 00:30:05.489
How was chris brown's experience?

00:30:05.788 --> 00:30:06.170
um shoot.

00:30:06.170 --> 00:30:07.032
He got ribs.

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What else did he get he?

00:30:08.817 --> 00:30:10.621
You're a real server if you remember what somebody ordered, oh.

00:30:10.641 --> 00:30:11.703
I remember what a lot of people ordered.

00:30:11.723 --> 00:30:12.065
Extra sauce.

00:30:12.065 --> 00:30:13.811
Was it extra sauce on there, or just regular?

00:30:14.086 --> 00:30:16.394
No, and he got the pork ribs, not the beef, because we had beef ribs too.

00:30:16.394 --> 00:30:22.346
They get pork ribs, mashed potatoes and something else, anybody else, chris Brown.

00:30:22.366 --> 00:30:23.491
that's a pretty big star, chris Brown.

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One of the know his name.

00:30:26.314 --> 00:30:29.276
Uh, we had some.

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Oh my gosh not sylvester stallone coco okay, I was out here.

00:30:36.961 --> 00:30:40.825
Was I see there too, he wasn't okay, she came out because, you know, I would add asking about law and order.

00:30:40.945 --> 00:30:44.373
Svs svu yes, sylvester stallone that was.

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That's a big one yep, that's a big one.

00:30:46.116 --> 00:30:47.019
Uh, who else?

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yeah, we had a couple, okay, so what was the most I don't want to ask most traumatic moment, what was probably the most traumatic moment you experienced working in the service industry?

00:30:56.228 --> 00:30:56.990
traumatic.

00:30:56.990 --> 00:30:59.679
First off, it's trauma all the time.

00:30:59.679 --> 00:31:06.182
Let's be all the way real because, especially when you're talking about those friday, saturday nights, it's you're just and you're slammed.

00:31:06.182 --> 00:31:10.875
You are, as we say, the term in in and beverages, you're in the weeds.

00:31:10.875 --> 00:31:14.634
And for me again, when you're a strong server, you get bombarded.

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So I used to also get all the people that were disgruntled.

00:31:16.874 --> 00:31:22.053
They got left on the waiting list and they forgot, and all of those things were like Deanna, you need to take care of them.

00:31:22.053 --> 00:31:28.517
They're on the other side of the restaurant, my section is over on another side and I'm running back and forth.

00:31:28.517 --> 00:31:42.903
I mean it was constant taking care of a party of 25 by myself, taking care of an entire section by myself, having to carry my room partner who was with me, who you know maybe is just newer, is stronger or not as strong as mean.

00:31:42.903 --> 00:31:43.986
It's it's trauma all the time.

00:31:44.006 --> 00:31:53.320
But what it did teach me was you learn um, yes, customer service, but you learn how to also de-escalate problems.

00:31:53.320 --> 00:31:57.271
You learn how to multitask, you learn how to prioritize.

00:31:57.271 --> 00:32:01.036
I was a lead trainer so I had to also train people as well.

00:32:01.036 --> 00:32:19.306
But then you also learn how to talk to people right and how to deal with people, even on their best or worst day, but it was something that I'm glad that I did, but when it got towards the end of the season of like I need to make this transition, which is also.

00:32:19.306 --> 00:32:25.647
I stayed there for two years when we started a couple of fit, but it was it just got to a point where, like I'm I'm done with this.

00:32:25.647 --> 00:32:36.733
I can't deal with people in the, the people that come in anymore, and the way that you get treated and like the way that people talk to you they feel like they can talk to you anyway Crazy.

00:32:36.733 --> 00:32:38.571
It's just so disrespectful.

00:32:38.905 --> 00:32:46.276
Y'all don't realize that I'm doing this to literally get through school, like I'm doing this to just be able to like make it to the next move.

00:32:46.276 --> 00:32:49.133
But y'all are treating me as if I'm again.

00:32:49.133 --> 00:32:53.105
I'm ringing the bell Like move, but y'all are treating me as if I'm again um ringing the bell like um excuse me, where's my ranch?

00:32:53.446 --> 00:32:59.569
I thought these were fettuccine alfredo noodles like hurry up my gosh, hurry up with those barbecue pork ribs you know what I'm saying?

00:32:59.569 --> 00:33:01.273
And then, uh, or that coffee.

00:33:01.273 --> 00:33:02.155
Where's my latte?

00:33:02.296 --> 00:33:03.125
yes, but just quickly.

00:33:03.125 --> 00:33:03.988
One quick story.

00:33:03.988 --> 00:33:07.236
When I had um, I was taking, I was in the bar.

00:33:07.236 --> 00:33:08.486
I never really worked in the bar.

00:33:08.486 --> 00:33:09.094
I don't like the bar.

00:33:09.094 --> 00:33:09.863
That was not something I enjoyed.

00:33:09.863 --> 00:33:10.070
Happy hour was too lit.

00:33:10.070 --> 00:33:10.218
I was in the bar.

00:33:10.218 --> 00:33:10.467
I never really worked in the bar.

00:33:10.467 --> 00:33:10.634
I don't like the bar.

00:33:10.634 --> 00:33:11.044
That was not something I enjoyed.

00:33:11.044 --> 00:33:12.128
Happy hour was too lit.

00:33:12.128 --> 00:33:12.788
I was not.

00:33:12.788 --> 00:33:13.411
I don't like it.

00:33:13.411 --> 00:33:19.154
I picked up a bar shift because I needed some extra money, not knowing that there's a whole baby shower that's happening.

00:33:19.154 --> 00:33:21.031
Remember that private room that used to be off the bar.

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There's a private room that had probably 15 tables.

00:33:24.288 --> 00:33:34.817
I had to take care of this entire private room plus another five tables on the outside, and I'm pretty strong right when it comes to like lifting and carrying plates.

00:33:34.817 --> 00:33:37.077
Our plates at Clean Jibber were very heavy.

00:33:37.097 --> 00:33:41.541
It had some weight to it, it had some weight to it and I pride myself on being how much weight you think 50, 60 pounds.

00:33:41.541 --> 00:33:42.507
Oh no, I mean I was.

00:33:43.028 --> 00:33:45.094
it was as if I was doing 245s yeah.

00:33:45.515 --> 00:33:45.855
What's that?

00:33:45.855 --> 00:33:48.817
245 or a 45 on each side, oh 135.

00:33:48.857 --> 00:33:51.499
Yeah, easy, that's for sure because I got it.

00:33:51.499 --> 00:33:57.945
I need to get down into it and pick it up the knees, not the back the thing is it wasn't an automatic door so I had to push the door.

00:33:58.126 --> 00:34:00.432
Oh no, and I had one hand.

00:34:00.432 --> 00:34:00.894
What happened?

00:34:00.894 --> 00:34:19.621
And I'm walking out and somebody walks in front of me very fast, like trying to move before, and they clipped the tip of the tray and I had probably 25 plates and it wobbles back, it wobbles forward, it wobbles back and they all, the whole entire tray, fell.

00:34:19.621 --> 00:34:24.054
And I'm talking it's packed, because it was probably a football game that was happening and it's packed.

00:34:24.054 --> 00:34:28.771
25 plates crash and burn all over the floor and I just look at it.

00:34:28.771 --> 00:34:32.456
I said well, it is what it is called out to, called out to my homie to come.

00:34:32.456 --> 00:34:33.418
Can you help me clean this up?

00:34:33.418 --> 00:34:34.219
And I had to keep going.

00:34:34.219 --> 00:34:36.228
I can't even worry about this, I have to keep going.

00:34:36.228 --> 00:34:41.335
It was just but those are things that happen on a daily basis that you literally just have to keep going through.

00:34:41.355 --> 00:34:51.978
You're like, listen, I mean, I feel like that story was a perfect example to remind someone to please tip your serve Tip was a perfect example to remind someone to please tip your service Tip.

00:34:51.998 --> 00:34:55.708
Show them some love, treat them with some respect, 20% y'all is standard.

00:34:55.789 --> 00:34:56.489
If they've earned it.

00:34:56.650 --> 00:34:57.271
If they've earned it.

00:34:57.271 --> 00:34:58.373
I do agree with that If they've earned it.

00:34:58.393 --> 00:35:01.016
If it was on time, if the food was hot On time, if they spoke to you.

00:35:01.036 --> 00:35:02.539
They're giving you great recommendations.

00:35:02.539 --> 00:35:03.280
They spoke to you.

00:35:03.280 --> 00:35:09.873
Do you need to tip on all the drinks?

00:35:09.873 --> 00:35:15.701
Right, but just so you know, tip means to ensure promptness.

00:35:15.701 --> 00:35:22.608
So when somebody used to slide me a 20 before they even get their order, I said I'm ready to be prompt here.

00:35:22.909 --> 00:35:23.751
You set the tone, yes.

00:35:24.353 --> 00:35:24.916
What do you need?

00:35:24.916 --> 00:35:25.617
Anything.

00:35:25.617 --> 00:35:30.436
I know table 72 needs this, but you get priority.

00:35:30.456 --> 00:35:31.326
Come on now Listen.

00:35:31.326 --> 00:35:33.753
You come in and tip and all of a sudden they say you're good in here.

00:35:33.853 --> 00:35:37.213
You're good in here and people again your server will remember.

00:35:37.213 --> 00:35:40.393
You'll never forget Say oh no, you used to come in Love it.

00:35:40.393 --> 00:35:46.789
You saw, people come in with a black card, I'm like yeah, and last tip ask the server what's good, they will whatever, what's good?

00:35:46.789 --> 00:35:52.954
When I tell you we come up with the best concoctions, I can't even tell you the amount of just incredible dishes that we've made.

00:35:53.054 --> 00:35:54.434
And you'll find out about the secret menu.

00:35:54.675 --> 00:35:55.715
You will, you will.

00:35:55.715 --> 00:35:57.257
We had a whole secret menu that people don't even know.

00:35:57.277 --> 00:35:58.338
There are secret menus.

00:35:58.699 --> 00:35:59.338
Liver and onions.

00:35:59.378 --> 00:36:02.981
That was another thing, not for me, but Not the liver and onions At all, but there was our secret menus.

00:36:08.885 --> 00:36:10.329
I'm sweating because it brought up some trauma for me.

00:36:10.349 --> 00:36:11.552
I'm thinking about 3.30 am.

00:36:11.893 --> 00:36:12.956
Yes, yes.

00:36:12.956 --> 00:36:22.724
So hopefully this helps you to understand a little bit more of what happens behind the scenes when it comes to food and beverage in the hospitality space.

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If you know somebody that has worked in food and beverage, send this to them.

00:36:27.137 --> 00:36:35.313
I bet you they will literally be triggered by those server nightmares that you still have even 10 years after being out of the industry.

00:36:35.313 --> 00:36:38.407
Uh, where it's like I forgot to bring that spoon to table.

00:36:38.407 --> 00:36:39.670
54 for that clam chowder.

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Oh my gosh, like wakes you up out of your sleep.

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So send it to them.

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