June 10, 2025

Episode 36: Growing Older, Getting Wiser (About Your Body!)

Unlock Your Summer Body: Sustainable Health with the SWAN Method! Summer body goals feel harder with age? Ditch the crash diets and embrace sustainable health! This episode introduces our SWAN method – Sleep, Water, Activity, Nutrition – your complete guide to feeling amazing. We share personal stories, debunk quick fixes, and show how small, consistent changes bring big results. Dive into each SWAN pillar: Discover how sleep impacts weight managementWhy hydration is key for fitnessHo...

Unlock Your Summer Body: Sustainable Health with the SWAN Method!

Summer body goals feel harder with age? Ditch the crash diets and embrace sustainable health! This episode introduces our SWAN method – Sleep, Water, Activity, Nutrition – your complete guide to feeling amazing.

We share personal stories, debunk quick fixes, and show how small, consistent changes bring big results.

Dive into each SWAN pillar: 

  • Discover how sleep impacts weight management
  • Why hydration is key for fitness
  • How can activity be easy


Our practical approach meets you where you are, from simple food swaps to a nutrition overhaul. Plus, our "Two Can Do It" framework proves that having a partner boosts success and fun!

Ready for lasting health that looks good and feels great?

This episode is your roadmap. Give yourself grace, celebrate non-scale victories, and enjoy the journey!

00:00 - Welcome and Summer Body Intro

09:25 - Setting SMART Fitness Goals

11:21 - The SWAN Health Philosophy Explained

15:34 - Sleep: Recovery's Critical Role

21:18 - Water: Hydration for Summer Health

26:39 - Activity: Meeting Yourself Where You Are

30:30 - Nutrition: Food as Fuel

39:48 - Two Can Do It: Partnership Benefits

45:13 - Three Levels to Health Changes

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Hey, cupply Fit fam, Welcome to another episode of the Cupply Fit podcast where we talk all things health, marriage and mindset.

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Today we're going to be focusing on more of the health aspect.

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With summer coming up, I know most people are probably thinking about their summer body, so we're going to help you get some tips as well as some ways to get closer to that summer body.

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I feel like as we get older, you know, the summer body is a little bit harder to obtain than it once was.

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There's a time where it was like you know what spring break or you know summer body, I need three days, that's it.

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Now it's like I need three months, I need three months.

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I need to get into it.

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I know, when we were working out in our 20s you know LA Fitness, you know let's say we ate, you know and enjoyed ourselves one week we were like, okay, it's only going to take us a week to get back and kind of have that snap back.

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And now, now that we're in our 30s, things have changed.

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Well, not only that.

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I feel like you want to eat more and enjoy, like the good foods, more, because I feel like I've also exposed and really I shout out to you, but you've exposed me to more different type of cuisines that I typically would not try outside of chicken tenders or french fries.

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So now it's like that tastes delicious.

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Oh, I hadn't tried that.

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And you're working out less than you maybe were, like when you're more active or playing sports or different things, and they catch up with you.

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That's right and it's called responsibilities.

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That's true, that's facts.

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Responsibilities are real.

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So to the younger kids stay young.

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Enjoy it.

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Enjoy it, savor that Cinnabon.

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Savor.

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That's right.

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That's right.

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So first we're going to get into setting goals, because I think not only is that great when we talk about just your even your personal life and work life, but then also write your health goals.

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This is going to be particular into more of your physical self, and so when you talk about setting goals, we want to set smart goals, and smart goals is an acronym.

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It stands for specific, measurable, achievable, relevant and time bound.

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I just already want to start and say I've been that person.

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So if you're listening right now and you're like, man, I got a big, big trip coming up.

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I need to lose 10 pounds this week, come on, whatever it takes.

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I feel like other people have been there and you set that goal and it's like that's not a smart goal.

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It's not a smart goal.

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I can't be mad on Thursday when I set the goal Tuesday to lose 10 pounds this week.

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That's right and to your point.

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The national average for losing weight is anywhere from a half of a pound to two pounds per week.

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That's perspective.

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Is that perspective?

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So when we talk about 10 pounds in one week, we may need that's extreme.

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That's like you're a wrestler.

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That's well.

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Dropping weight, yeah, typically, not necessarily in the healthiest ways.

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Yes.

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But again, if you set that goal of being so high right, like you said, the 10 pounds in one week Well, first off, I feel like you're, in my personal opinion, you're setting yourself up to not reach that goal because it's yes, it's a specific goal, yes, I can measure it.

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Is it achievable?

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It's time bound, it's not achievable.

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It's not achievable.

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And so that's when you know you say in your head, oh my gosh, I'm going to lose that 10 pounds in this one week, or even in two weeks.

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And then, when you don't reach that goal because it's it's not necessarily achievable, then you can start getting down on yourself.

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It's like I knew I wasn't going to.

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Well, you know what?

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Just, I'm going to go and eat bingey, right, and I'm going to get a pizza, I'm going to get a cinnamon.

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Ice cream by the pint.

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Ice cream by the pint, right.

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And it can be something where you just want to make sure whatever goal that you set for yourself is a smart goal, because the more that you can be in the realm of specifically the achievable part, you're building your confidence in what you know that you can do to either lose weight, build muscle, like whatever your specific goal is.

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Yeah, and something too that I think that aligns with this well, is giving ourselves grace.

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Yes.

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That the number on the scale may not always be what we want it to be, but look at the other wins that might be in there.

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So, like for me, right, we talk about it's like, ah, the number isn't as low as I want it to be.

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But, right, we talk about it's like, ah, the number isn't as low as I want it to be, but, man, I'm fitting into these pants.

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Yes, I've been wanting to wear the slacks.

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Right, you can lose inches.

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So, just balancing out those other wins to give yourself that motivation to keep going, because it may not be perfect every week or every day.

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You're absolutely correct.

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So then this goes into the difference between short-term goals and long-term goals.

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I think you kind of mentioned a little bit of a short-term goal where you know, for example, coachella, right.

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I need to lose 10 pounds in 10 days.

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I need to lose 10 pounds in 10 days or have an event that I want to lose weight for or gain muscle, for I want to fit into my high school suit this weekend.

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It's like what this weekend?

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Yes, yes, yes.

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So those short-term goals may be something like an event that you are looking to have a specific goal for, but then also the long-term goals may be hey, I'm actually doing this and creating these smart goals so that I can live longer for my kids, or I can see, you know, my grandkids be able to get married right, like whatever can that long-term goal can be?

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Knowing the difference between the two as well, and knowing that your long-term goals are going to be correlated with your lifestyle change, where short-term goals may be a little bit more correlated, like I said, with an event or a marriage specifically, like we can think about our wedding day, where we were hitting the gym hard.

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Whatever it took Before, by any means necessary.

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By any means to be able to get this.

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Although that wasn't necessarily summer body, that was for an event to be able to have that body.

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Yeah, but to that point, on the body side too, or on the long-term goals, something that I thought about, like for me personally, you know, wanting to do more distance running, so wanting to be able to run more of the 5ks, even getting to the point where being able to run a half marathon and just having that confidence too, and like the knees and the hamstrings and you know the old injuries from football, but having that confidence really is something that, um, like, I'm excited about from a long-term goal perspective.

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But the more that I focus on that summer summer list on the more short term it's going to lead into the, you know, distance running in the long-term goals.

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Yes.

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So now, when we talk about goals, we want to talk about specific goals.

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So, for example, do you want to lose weight?

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Do you want to gain muscle?

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Do you want to tone?

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What are you kind of looking to do when we talk about those SMART goals the short term versus the long term and how do you achieve that right?

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So when we talk about specific goals let's say weight loss what would be some ways that we could achieve the weight loss?

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Yeah.

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So when I think about the weight loss goal, I mean one is I mean you know we've got it right here next to me, but water right, and you know, having having water staying hydrated, even just making the small switch, something that made a huge difference for me is it's so easy to grab the Gatorade or the energy drink, just whatever that juice, because it tastes so good.

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I love apple juice.

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I used to drink it right out the container.

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Mom's used to be upset, but I say that to say switching to water saves you so many calories and reduces the sugar intake and that's just like one small change, or one swan change that you can make from a difference when it comes to weight loss.

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Yes, and to add to your point when it comes to weight loss as well, is being able to look at what am I intaking?

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Right, when it comes to nutrition, we're going to get a little bit more into our swan philosophy, which I think will really simplify all of uh.

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You know what we're talking about on the goal setting part.

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But when we look at food, right, food is fuel, food is medicine.

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So anything that you're eating is this helping you get closer to your goals or helping you get a little bit further from your goals?

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And if we start kind of looking at food from a different aspect now, we're going to start seeing like, okay, I'm seeing some weight loss and again, sometimes that might start in your face, it might start in your pants, like you said, you're losing a couple of inches feeling leaner right, but even muscle gain.

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I know for you specifically, people see men specifically see that you, you know, have your bicep, bicep, tricep.

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They see your gym content on social media as well, and so what would you say is some components of muscle gain that will help people if they have that specific goal when I think about the muscle gain side of things, I think just being consistent and realizing that just getting active whether, like, if you don't have a gym membership, that's okay like if you literally just start off with some basic push-ups, some sit-ups, body weight exercises, are things that can be a game changer and really that's something that, even as I've gotten older, that makes a difference, where I don't have as much time in the gym, sometimes just because of work, and I try to do more cardio, which helps obviously reduce um for me, my, my body's fat loss response to cardio is higher, so I do more cardio.

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But then when I get off of cardio, I'll do the pushups, the sit-ups, the pull-ups, and if you can't do a pull-up, that's okay, you can try dips on the front end, you can do them off the couch if you're not, you know, at a gym type of thing.

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So I think all of those foundational squats, right, those foundational basics I recommend as, like, the starting point, and then you can just build off of that, right, if you start off and you're doing it at your house, and then your confidence is now greater.

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Like, you know what I got, this gym membership that maybe comes with the job, or I've got this gym that's at my facility that I live or work.

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I'm going to now go in there and do these same exercises, but add a little bit of weight or add some equipment, or, you know, maybe I'm watching that favorite influencer or personality that works out and I'm picking up some exercises from them.

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So don't feel like you have to overthink it.

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I think that the paralysis by analysis is the biggest thing, where people are like well, I'm gonna wait until I get the perfect shoes and the perfect shirt and I'm gonna wait until, like, the gym drops its prices and I'm awake.

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You're just, you're waiting, you're waiting, you're waiting.

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And now summer.

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You've missed summer.

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So I would say, just get started, even if it's right where you are.

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Excellent, I I agree with you on all of those points, and it's a great segue into our philosophy that we created SWAN, which stands for sleep, water, activity, nutrition, and it's an easy way to just simplify physical health, because we can get so caught up in what we're seeing on social media, whether it's fake news or it's people who are not.

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Uh, have the education to be able to teach you, and so you know, for me, I'm a certified nutrition consultant and transformational specialist.

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You also have your master's degree in sports education, so we have taken that extra step to be able to learn more about not only physical health, but then also the mind-body connection.

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And so when we talk about SWAN, let's talk a little bit about sleep, right, the importance of having sleep and how this contributes to your summer body.

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And so when we Talk about it, it really is about are you able to rest and are you able to recover, Because that's really where your sleep component comes in.

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Is that recovery piece?

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And if you want to talk a little bit more about that, yeah, so often I think that when you think about sleep and recovery, or sleep and rest, um, we've moved so close to this world where we have to grind all the time, we have to be on all the time it's a badge of honor that you don't get any sleep or that you're.

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You know you're working hard early morning.

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Correct Right and there, and I think there's balance that you have, there's a fine line that you have to balance of I am working hard but I'm working smarter and I'm making sure that I'm prioritizing my health, because if you don't prioritize your sleep and rest, your body will shut down and you find yourself out for much longer.

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And I think about, like even you know me and you right, we've had a lot of conferences, a lot of travel and I know for me, like when I am on the road I'm traveling for a conference, I don't get as much sleep, I'm not drinking as much water, right, like, I'm out of my routine.

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Typically it's a weather change hot in Arizona, maybe colder somewhere else that you go and then you find yourself getting sick.

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And what happens?

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As soon as I get sick or get a cough, or we're not feeling well, you got to sleep, got to get more water and hydrate, right, you got to take the day off of work and it's like find that balance of Sundays is a big day for us to get our sleep and rest right when, truly get a nap and don't set the alarm Right.

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And for I know we don't have kids, you know yet, but for the parents.

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If your kids are taking a nap, like we're about to all take a nap, like actually it's nap time, but that hour or two makes such a big difference, um, and even doing meditation and those types of things to just put your mind at ease and relax, uh, makes a big difference too.

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Yes, and to your point about the sleep component you were just mentioning for you specifically, if you do not sleep you will get sick.

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And this literally just happened, you know, last month, when we were traveling in Europe, where you had a couple of days where you were those late nights and early mornings and almost instantly you were sick, I mean, and fever sick, like you're sweating it out.

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So it's again, it's a reminder that if you don't sleep and rest, or if you don't take care of your physical health, then your body will tell you that, oh, you didn't want to listen to me then.

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Well, you're going to listen to me now because I'm going to shut you down.

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And so sleep is a critical component.

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And again, we always talk about one small change, but we really say one swan change, because if you were sleeping five hours before, try to sleep five and a half, just try to sleep a little bit longer, try to maybe take a couple of rests, also in between meetings, if you can, right to your point, the meditation, a little bit of journaling, something like that to help ease your mind.

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And when it comes to actual sleep, you are cleaning the toxins from your brain.

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And so now, when we start talking about when dementia, alzheimer's although, yes, it's connected to our second mind, which is our gut we have to have in a time where our brain is being able to clear those toxins away, and that's from sleep and rest.

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Yeah, and three things that we did that were game changers for us personally.

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Getting more sleep and rest is one.

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We've got a new mattress.

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Yes.

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Game changer.

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Two we got blackout curtains blackout curtains.

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Three, we got it's like a hotel.

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We got gifted a humidifier.

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Yes, With the, I mean with the natural scents, I mean those three things.

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Essential oils, that right there, game changer.

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One of those three, or all of those three, will take you from maybe five hours of sleep to at least six.

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Yes, Like, at minimum one of those three will give you an extra hour.

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And you know what?

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To your point, I always hear like gosh, my kids are waking up so early, they're waking up at like 6am, 7am.

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It's a weekend.

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I'm trying to sleep in.

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Do the same thing for them?

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Oh, that's true.

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What they don't know what time.

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They don't know what time it's like being in Vegas in the casino, like where am.

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I no clocks.

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They're pumping fresh air in here, Unlimited milk, yeah, instead of drinks like Vegas for the kids.

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Yes, and then I also think, romanticize your sleep schedule, right?

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One thing that we loved was, um, when we were at a hotel, see what they're also doing too in your space, right?

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So when we stay in certain hotels, they'll have, like, a sleep roll on lavender oil Lavender oil is incredible.

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We love that so much and then also spray your pillows with, you know, a lavender oil, a rosemary.

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If you're trying to wake up, too, you can spray a little peppermint in the air, right?

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Those type of things to be able to help you with your sleep schedule and stay asleep longer.

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If you do want to take it a step further, something that again, this is not a promotion or sponsored, but the Oura Ring the Oura Ring is a game changer.

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Yeah, because it will tell you hey, you're more susceptible to get sick.

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Oh my gosh, you know where are your metrics on and off.

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Yes.

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So Oura Ring.

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We need an Oura Ring.

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Yes, and they are HSA approved as well, so you can use your health savings account to be able to pay for it, because it's a little bit.

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You know it's an investment, but you want to be able to invest into yourself because something that we I just posted this on our social media.

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We have our like Cupply Fit Club on our Instagram and we posted a quick little snippet that said investing into your health is going to outlast any car, any phone, any bag that you purchase, anything that you're spending hundreds or even thousands of dollars on.

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How can I take this money and reinvest into my health?

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Because we are seeing, nowadays it's getting harder and harder to cope with what's happening in the world, and what's happening just on a day-to-day basis, harder and harder to cope with what's happening in the world and what's happening just on a day to day basis.

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So what are the small little, you know moments that we can have for ourselves to be able to invest into our health?

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Because, again, right, going back to that cliche of health is wealth, and if we don't have our health, then are we going to be here for our kids?

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Are we going to be here for, you know, even our parents?

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Right, we don't want to be able to pass before them because you know we're seeing more and more people are having some serious health problems in their 40s and in their 50s.

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And it's getting a little scary out there of just what we're seeing on the health and wellness side 100% and something else like two other that, um, I think get overlooked when it comes to the health and wellness or the sleep and rest.

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One is, uh, the time that you stop with the adult beverages or the libations right like the wine or the alcohol, the later that it gets at night you'll like, you'll be hot yes which can disrupt or interrupt your sleep and I know, naturally right.

00:18:01.934 --> 00:18:14.425
For most people it's like man, day ended at, day ended at 5, wine at 5, right, which is totally fine, but then also just being mindful of, like, if it gets to 8 or 9 or 10, and now you're trying to go to sleep and you're like man, I'm not comfortable or I didn't sleep.

00:18:14.425 --> 00:18:16.676
Well, that can be a really big part of it.

00:18:16.676 --> 00:18:22.223
So I know that was one of the big things for us too, that we just kind of learn through.

00:18:22.223 --> 00:18:25.407
Just you know, trial and error, right, ACs at like 65.

00:18:25.407 --> 00:18:26.429
It's like man, why is it so cold?

00:18:26.429 --> 00:18:35.118
Oh, had a couple of drinks that were had something to drink and that caused it.

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Yes, and I I want people to have this takeaway that your progress for the next day starts the night before and it really starts with your nighttime routine.

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How do you invest into yourself?

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Is it self-care?

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Do you give yourself like a facial before you go to bed?

00:18:48.366 --> 00:18:50.839
Are you spraying down your pillows?

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Do you have the humidifier going?

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Do you read a book?

00:18:53.767 --> 00:18:56.000
Right and put your phone to the side on D and D?

00:18:56.000 --> 00:18:57.564
Those emails are going nowhere.

00:18:57.564 --> 00:19:02.823
Okay, we don't need to be on our phones at 10 PM still emailing people, people back.

00:19:02.823 --> 00:19:05.008
No one's going to email you back usually around that time.

00:19:05.008 --> 00:19:14.339
And again, yes, it depends on the level that you are within your organization, but you need to have boundaries right and boundaries around.

00:19:14.339 --> 00:19:19.805
What is going to be best for your we're talking physical health right now, but also your mental health.

00:19:20.375 --> 00:19:35.609
Yeah, and I think, the more that you can remove barriers that are happening or any barriers that you may be experiencing when it comes to a healthier you so like for us, something that we do a great job of, that I think it has nothing to do with how hard you work out in the gym.

00:19:35.609 --> 00:19:41.467
It's literally the preparation, because creating a regular routine is key, right?

00:19:41.467 --> 00:19:48.243
So, things that we do like, if you like, pre-workout or your water bottle, fill that water bottle up and already have it out.

00:19:48.243 --> 00:19:53.026
We have our gym bags at night, we bring them out towards the front where we can have them closer to the door.

00:19:53.026 --> 00:19:57.585
So just those types of like things that you can build into your routine.

00:19:58.086 --> 00:19:58.928
Remove the barrier.

00:19:58.928 --> 00:20:12.154
I mean even little things that I think of where, um, I know you have like some one piece sets or things like that, but I have like shorts that are built in where I don't have to go find like, uh, you know, uh, workout, workout compression shorts, then workout shorts.

00:20:12.154 --> 00:20:25.119
It's like, oh, it's a built in, like boom, we're one step closer to getting out of the door, and I think all of those little adjustments help so that you can just make it to that, that, that space where you can get into your routine for your healthier you.

00:20:25.500 --> 00:20:26.564
Yes, I love that.

00:20:26.564 --> 00:20:34.208
So let's jump into water, which is the second piece of Swan, and how critical it is to stay hydrated during the summer.

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Right, we're talking summer body.

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This is just in general, but I know specifically.

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We are in Arizona.

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It is already 102, 103 right now and it's quote unquote, springtime for us.

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But as we get into summer, the importance of hydration and I don't think people realize that when you sleep, you are losing up to two liters of water when you are sleeping and I don't think people realize that.

00:20:59.482 --> 00:21:09.503
So if we're, as you take a sip of water, as we are waking up in the morning, are you replenishing the water that you just lost?

00:21:09.503 --> 00:21:19.926
Or are we jumping into an energy drink or a coffee or a juice or something like that, where we're actually ingesting more of sugar than we are the water that we just lost?

00:21:19.926 --> 00:21:23.380
And so now, if we're not replenishing, we're at a deficit the entire day.

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And if you have, if you're at a deficit consistently, that's when you start seeing changes where you know your urine can turn Brown, you can start having blood in your urine.

00:21:32.256 --> 00:21:45.619
Right, you can start also seeing that I have these massive migraines that I don't know where they're coming from I'm taking like a you know a migraine reliever, when really a lot of times it's just are you drinking enough water?

00:21:45.881 --> 00:21:50.950
Yeah, and we know people that have like passed out right Like yeah, of course you have to go to the hospital.

00:21:50.950 --> 00:21:53.519
People have to go to the hospital and they get there and like yo, what happened?

00:21:53.519 --> 00:21:55.064
They were dehydrated.

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You thought it was and it was like thank God it wasn't something much worse.

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But the fact that it was dehydration just lets you know how much that, how important it is.

00:22:02.766 --> 00:22:04.950
And even you see it for just like the average person.

00:22:05.015 --> 00:22:14.583
You see it for athletes, right, they're cramping up like take them off the field, or they're you know they're taking pickle juice or you know salt tablets, whatever they need to try to offset the cramping.

00:22:14.583 --> 00:22:20.079
But it's a hydration challenge and I think for us the more that we can just swap out or make that change.

00:22:20.079 --> 00:22:24.146
And really one of the game changers when it comes to water is just having a water bottle.

00:22:24.146 --> 00:22:32.584
Like you're almost, I think, 40 or 50% more likely to stay hydrated If you have a water bottle, a reusable bottle that you can just fill up.

00:22:32.584 --> 00:22:39.617
Pretty much when we travel right Airport, um, home in the car, like literally, we have a water bottle that we can refill in most places.

00:22:39.617 --> 00:22:40.319
And what?

00:22:40.319 --> 00:22:44.058
What gets overlooked is how much money you save.

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Like when you go out to eat when you go, when you're traveling, if you have a water bottle and can refill it, or if you're, you know, drinking water instead of juice and drinks or cocktails.

00:22:54.516 --> 00:23:00.277
Man, I mean, you're talking about saving 10 or $20 every meal every time you go out which adds up.

00:23:00.676 --> 00:23:01.238
That adds up.

00:23:01.238 --> 00:23:07.609
And then, to add to your point, we also have the five-gallon jugs that are at the house, right.

00:23:07.609 --> 00:23:20.106
We have our water disposal, that we put the five-gallon jugs let's call it sparklets for example, right, and now you're saving money by being able to have, I think we get, about 25 gallons of water.

00:23:20.106 --> 00:23:22.371
That will last us, honestly, what?

00:23:22.371 --> 00:23:23.732
Maybe seven to 10 days.

00:23:23.732 --> 00:23:30.692
Yeah, yeah, like seven to 10 days about a week and a half, 25 gallons of water and I spent $10.

00:23:30.692 --> 00:23:31.275
Man.

00:23:31.875 --> 00:23:51.306
I mean, if you think where else, when you think about someone checking out at your local Walmart and they have, you know, the two liters right or the best deal, and it's like three for the two liters, right or the best deal, and it's like three for five or something like that, but it's a two liter versus 25 gallons of water for that same exact amount.

00:23:51.306 --> 00:23:53.126
Yes, no brainer.

00:23:53.426 --> 00:24:00.333
And then also, just remembering, or for those that don't know, 70% of our vital organs are made up of water.

00:24:00.333 --> 00:24:08.734
So how are we going to be able to have our organs function at their optimal level if we are not replenishing the water and drinking that water?

00:24:08.734 --> 00:24:10.483
And again, we don't always have to drink water.

00:24:10.483 --> 00:24:15.742
You can have your fruits, you can have vegetables that have a higher consistency of water as well.

00:24:15.742 --> 00:24:33.746
If you don't want to always drink it and I know that's something for us too we like to have our cold pressed juices, and when I tell you we will look at the juice the next day and you'll see the separation between the water and then the actual kind of, you know, nutrients of the fruits and vegetables that we've juiced.

00:24:33.746 --> 00:24:35.201
And it's sizable.

00:24:35.201 --> 00:24:37.482
I mean, it's probably about what?

00:24:37.482 --> 00:24:45.922
Maybe a 70-30 on the water to the like nutrient combo that we see so highly recommend that on the water to the nutrient combo that we see so highly recommend that on the water.

00:24:46.375 --> 00:24:54.661
And to your point, just real quick on the juicing right and I think you see so many more videos now and there's so many different types of juicers and people have gotten more into it.

00:24:56.662 --> 00:25:01.084
But that's a great investment, but you've got to meet people where they are.

00:25:01.084 --> 00:25:10.056
So for me it's a big jump to go from chicken tenders and french fries to like, hey, everything needs to be broccoli and asparagus and all of the vegetables.

00:25:10.056 --> 00:25:12.481
Don't get me wrong, I've incorporated them more.

00:25:12.481 --> 00:25:25.006
But it's a lot easier for me to drink a green juice on the go or like at my desk, or have that or my protein shake with two um sources of vegetables, versus like eating vegetables with every meal which I do not prefer.

00:25:25.006 --> 00:25:27.080
Like to me that's a chore.

00:25:27.080 --> 00:25:33.951
I eat the vegetables first to then get to what I enjoy, because otherwise, if I save them for last, You're not eating them.

00:25:33.991 --> 00:25:34.474
I'll be at the table.

00:25:34.474 --> 00:25:35.500
I used to be at the table as a kid.

00:25:35.694 --> 00:25:37.376
I was just going to say it's a trigger.

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It's a trigger.

00:25:38.018 --> 00:25:39.038
I used to be at the table.

00:25:39.038 --> 00:25:40.901
Hey, you can't get it from the table until you clean your plate.

00:25:40.901 --> 00:25:46.227
I used to sit at the table all night, put the vegetables in my mouth, go to the bathroom, spit them out in the toilet.

00:25:46.227 --> 00:25:47.409
I mean just all of the tricks.

00:25:47.409 --> 00:25:47.828
I did it.

00:25:47.828 --> 00:25:48.529
I did all of it.

00:25:48.529 --> 00:25:49.790
Try to give it to the dog.

00:25:49.790 --> 00:25:53.300
Dog's like no, give me the turkey leg.

00:25:53.320 --> 00:26:02.059
I don't want those green beans, so although we came from but there's water and there's water in the veggies, you're right, you're right, you're right.

00:26:02.080 --> 00:26:03.682
So water, major component.

00:26:03.682 --> 00:26:06.105
Then let's get into the A of swan activity.

00:26:06.105 --> 00:26:11.211
When we talk about, again, summer body, I feel like everyone's I have to be in the gym.

00:26:11.211 --> 00:26:13.196
This is the way that I'm going to get my summer body.

00:26:13.196 --> 00:26:19.625
I need to be doing these extreme workouts muscle gain workouts or strength training and it's like whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa Again.

00:26:19.625 --> 00:26:21.827
Meet yourself where you are.

00:26:22.209 --> 00:26:25.840
If you're typically at the desk most of the day, then maybe we just need to go for a walk.

00:26:25.840 --> 00:26:27.344
Let's start there.

00:26:27.344 --> 00:26:28.386
Don't get me wrong.

00:26:28.386 --> 00:26:36.826
You can go for a walk on the treadmill in the gym, but with spring, summer, depending on where you live, that might be a great opportunity to get out into nature.

00:26:36.826 --> 00:26:51.016
Right, start getting yourself just acclimated to getting active, and it may start with 10 minutes a day, right, and just up it kind of every week if you can, and it will just continue to get you closer to your summer body.

00:26:51.016 --> 00:26:57.480
And hopefully you created a smart goal where it's not a situation I'm trying to lose 10 pounds in 10 days and I'm trying to do it through walking.

00:26:57.480 --> 00:27:10.750
That's not necessarily what we're talking about, but meeting yourself where you are on the activity side is something that we always have seen our previous clients when we were doing custom meal plans, custom workout plans in our boot camps.

00:27:10.750 --> 00:27:14.724
People are like I just need to hit the gym so hard and that's going to take care of everything.

00:27:14.765 --> 00:27:19.126
When that's not the case, yeah, and a lot of times to watching social media can be tough.

00:27:19.276 --> 00:27:19.678
Oh my gosh.

00:27:20.335 --> 00:27:23.823
You know, it's like the viral video the one guy was like't know if it was like bryce hall or bryce hell.

00:27:23.823 --> 00:27:26.465
Basically, he's like he's putting his face into the ice.

00:27:26.465 --> 00:27:27.548
He's got the car.

00:27:27.548 --> 00:27:36.526
He's got like the range rover following him as he's sprinting like on the side of the freeway david goggins, people think that like that has to be your, you know, like your journey.

00:27:36.526 --> 00:27:39.057
This is week one yes of my fitness journey.

00:27:39.057 --> 00:27:39.759
It's like listen, that's weak.

00:27:39.759 --> 00:27:41.702
That's weak, that may be weak Never.

00:27:41.982 --> 00:27:45.490
That may be a year from now, and it's okay.

00:27:46.010 --> 00:27:55.316
But you can start by walking the stairs right, taking your dog out maybe twice a day versus once, like those little parking further the stairs versus the elevator.

00:27:55.316 --> 00:28:01.566
Like even us, like you know, and I remember a colleague that I work with shout out to you know, dan the man, but Dan, we don't.

00:28:01.566 --> 00:28:03.970
You know, we don't take the escalator like we, we walk.

00:28:03.970 --> 00:28:09.000
I was traveling with him I was like we don't, I guess we don't take the escalator anymore, I guess we walk.

00:28:09.000 --> 00:28:16.087
So I picked my bag up and walked up the stairs with him but I realized at the end of the day I got closer to my exercise ring.

00:28:16.087 --> 00:28:19.137
Right, he does like ultra marathons and some intense stuff.

00:28:19.137 --> 00:28:33.204
But just traveling with him I was able to see, like man, just that little difference of not taking the escalator, taking the stairs or walking versus, you know, standing still on the, you know conveyor that takes you through the airport.

00:28:33.497 --> 00:28:33.923
I was like.

00:28:33.923 --> 00:28:38.433
These are little differences, but it all makes a big impact on your health journey.

00:28:38.974 --> 00:28:39.655
It really does.

00:28:39.655 --> 00:28:48.092
And again, when we talk about activity, I mean it really is about knowing your body's limits as well.

00:28:48.092 --> 00:28:53.299
Right, so quickly, for example, pickleball, incredible.

00:28:53.400 --> 00:28:55.729
Don't lose the ACL out there, and Achilles.

00:28:56.881 --> 00:28:57.885
Incredible sport.

00:28:58.019 --> 00:29:00.107
It's been taking off, especially here in the US.

00:29:00.682 --> 00:29:20.348
We enjoy pickleball ourselves, but what we've realized is that people are jumping out too fast fast, thinking that they can be running to the kitchen right and slamming the ball down, and a torn Achilles is the number one injury that people are having in pickleball.

00:29:20.348 --> 00:29:41.309
Where your body is and don't feel the need to have to jump into something that you see on Instagram or your favorite quote, unquote influencer or you know somebody that you admire in the fitness realm is doing that may not be for you, and that's okay.

00:29:41.309 --> 00:29:50.094
Use them as your inspiration and your motivation for those days when it's like I don't want to go for that walk or I don't want to, you know, um, step foot into the gym.

00:29:50.094 --> 00:30:00.625
Today that's more so where I want people to kind of take a step back and realize that you don't have to be where somebody else is, because that's not your path at this time.

00:30:00.625 --> 00:30:01.207
You.

00:30:01.207 --> 00:30:08.031
But again, when we talk about that long-term goal, that can be the long-term goal for you, but short-term, we just need to get active, that's it.

00:30:12.059 --> 00:30:13.163
We just need to get out there and go play pickleball.

00:30:13.163 --> 00:30:22.806
We're not saying don't play, just make sure you stretch, get nice and loose first and don't go from zero to 100 in the pickleball court because, like, if you're not mindful, right, you want to really gradually increase your activity.

00:30:23.186 --> 00:30:24.669
Exactly so.

00:30:24.669 --> 00:30:27.311
Now we talk sleep, water, activity.

00:30:27.311 --> 00:30:30.236
Let's get into the N in SWAN, which is nutrition.

00:30:30.236 --> 00:30:36.442
This is obviously my favorite to talk about.

00:30:36.442 --> 00:30:37.284
I enjoy talking about nutrition.

00:30:37.284 --> 00:30:39.888
You heard me earlier in the episode say food is medicine, food is fuel.

00:30:39.888 --> 00:30:41.652
I very much believe that.

00:30:41.652 --> 00:30:59.902
Something that we used to tell our clients was that your body is like a car and your fuel that you're putting into your car is going to be food, and so what are you putting into your body that is going to help your car last longer?

00:30:59.902 --> 00:31:02.067
Go further, you know, get let's.

00:31:02.067 --> 00:31:04.373
We're trying to get to the 200, 300,000 miles.

00:31:05.680 --> 00:31:06.583
Toyota Honda.

00:31:06.583 --> 00:31:07.204
Do you know?

00:31:07.405 --> 00:31:17.750
We want that for our cars, but if we are having a little bit more salty, greasy, sugary fast food right, it's almost literally like putting sugar into your gas tank.

00:31:17.750 --> 00:31:19.226
Do you think your car is going to go far?

00:31:19.226 --> 00:31:21.346
Do you think your car is going to last long?

00:31:21.346 --> 00:31:25.410
Do you think you're going to have a lot more maintenance which is equivalent to the medical bills?

00:31:25.410 --> 00:31:29.961
Right, Medical bills will literally take down your entire life, Like.

00:31:29.961 --> 00:31:45.613
We've known some people who have astronomical medical bills with insurance and it's like, oh my gosh, if I just would have maybe taken my nutrition a little bit more seriously or have known what to eat, that would have been a game changer for us.

00:31:45.980 --> 00:31:53.311
I love the car example too, because when you think about it, if you put, you know, 87 or unleaded into a premium car, Come on now.

00:31:53.311 --> 00:31:58.451
Yeah, you're saving, you know, a dollar per gallon today.

00:31:58.692 --> 00:31:58.932
Yes.

00:31:59.460 --> 00:32:04.047
But then when that car stops on you and you take it to the mechanic and he's like, hey, it's going to be $5,000.

00:32:04.047 --> 00:32:05.803
You're like, wait a minute, what happened?

00:32:05.803 --> 00:32:08.788
He's like, well, you've been putting unleaded into a premium car.

00:32:08.788 --> 00:32:29.809
And so I really liked that example, because if there's that shift in mindset that obviously this premium fuel, even if it does cost a little bit more and sometimes the cost isn't monetary- the cost is the sacrifice that maybe that fast food is going to be a little bit more convenient, or I don't want to prep today, or I don't want to maybe have the salad for me, maybe not the vegetables, um.

00:32:29.829 --> 00:32:36.859
So I think those adjustments and thinking big picture makes it does make a big difference, but also for the people that are just trying to like get started.

00:32:36.859 --> 00:32:49.640
I think it's those small changes of like, even for me like still go to Chick-fil-a I love the Chick-fil-a, but like, instead of getting all uh fried nuggets, it's like let me do half grilled and I'm gonna get a couple of the strips on the side.

00:32:49.640 --> 00:32:54.348
Like, just those little adjustments can be a part of your journey of like.

00:32:54.348 --> 00:32:57.374
This is the one swan change or one small change.

00:32:57.759 --> 00:33:14.493
Yes, and we'll get into a little bit about just what we've noticed in our career with Cupply Fit fit and when we were having our clients and we're having consultations, there's, there are levels that we've kind of noticed throughout that time.

00:33:14.493 --> 00:33:15.537
Uh, there are levels.

00:33:15.537 --> 00:33:17.846
So we're going to get into that in an in just a little bit.

00:33:17.846 --> 00:33:23.705
But when it also comes to nutrition, I think what the question that we used to get the most was well, what do I eat?

00:33:23.705 --> 00:33:28.836
Right, and a lot of times we were just saying that it's.

00:33:29.917 --> 00:33:33.347
People don't necessarily know what a protein is, a carbohydrate?

00:33:33.347 --> 00:33:39.692
Uh, you know, we're pretty familiar with fruits and vegetables and, like the, you know minerals and vitamins that come from that.

00:33:39.692 --> 00:33:52.394
But really, what I want you to think of is what are the ways that I can incorporate more fuel into my everyday life, Right?

00:33:52.394 --> 00:33:57.853
So that looks like you said doing that small change of going from the fried to the grilled.

00:33:57.853 --> 00:34:07.289
That's an easy way to just start, especially if you're more fast food right now, where it's like listen, I don't have the time, I'm just trying to eat something.

00:34:07.289 --> 00:34:12.148
Right, Like I don't eat breakfast, I'm, this is my lunch and I'm going to do a larger lunch.

00:34:12.710 --> 00:34:22.847
Um, it's just about knowing or seeing what are the healthier options and typically when you look at a menu, even in fast food, they will have some sort of like salad option.

00:34:22.847 --> 00:34:29.913
There will be a fruit option, potentially Right and looking to see like okay, how can I sub out my fries for maybe that side salad?

00:34:29.913 --> 00:34:39.889
Or how can I sub out my drink that I typically get that's like a Coke, for we prefer water, but if it's a Coke and you have to go to a diet Coke first, that's a step.

00:34:39.969 --> 00:34:40.590
That's a step.

00:34:40.590 --> 00:34:49.108
We're just making those small changes to be able to move forward in having the confidence that you can choose healthier options.

00:34:49.320 --> 00:34:56.471
And sometimes it's just going from two double doubles to one, like just to be real, like it's like, hey, I used to go for the two for $4.

00:34:56.471 --> 00:34:58.467
Come on, the two for four actually.

00:34:58.487 --> 00:35:00.724
Well, yeah, inflation, Inflation things can change.

00:35:00.960 --> 00:35:02.112
It's like a two for 20.

00:35:02.132 --> 00:35:02.918
That's what it feels like.

00:35:02.918 --> 00:35:04.483
Is this Applebee's or is this McDonald's?

00:35:05.344 --> 00:35:17.452
But no to your point, I think, just those subtle changes, and sometimes it's like the volume that you're consuming or just being mindful of like hey, can I try an alternative to this?

00:35:17.452 --> 00:35:23.989
Once a week, like once a week, I'm going to sub in this side salad instead of doubling down with the onion blossom.

00:35:24.590 --> 00:35:26.686
Yes, ooh, love an onion blossom now.

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Just so you know I can go back and forth.

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Anybody who wants to talk food, I can talk food with the onion blossom.

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Yes, ooh, love an onion blossom now I can.

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Just so you know I can go.

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I can go back and forth.

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Anybody wants to talk food.

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I can talk food with the best of them, that's right.

00:35:34.231 --> 00:35:38.605
Sometimes I watch my 600 pound life just to remind me you got to slow down, slow it down slow it down.

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And so this actually brings me to the nutrition guide that I created, because we heard our clients say, again, I don't know what a protein is, or a carbohydrate, or fruits and vegetables or even snacks that I should be having, and so what I wanted to do is I wanted to make it very simple on your breakfast snacks, lunch, dinner snack, and I have a list of foods that are healthier options that you can choose from and literally just plug into this model.

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That makes it very easy for you to be able to switch up what you're eating too, because sometimes you know not everyone's about routine and the mundaneness of having you know the same meal every day, but making it so that you can start building the confidence within yourself that you can make these healthier choices.

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And these healthier choices can taste good.

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That's something else, too, that we've heard over over the years.

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Like god, this grilled chicken.

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Like I'm good, I'm over it, right, but if you start getting kind of salt-free seasonings, it's like well, what do I like?

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No salt, what do we do?

00:36:39.608 --> 00:36:42.740
Um, you start switching it out for a pink himalayan salt.

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Right, there's other options that you can start incorporating that will make it easier, but we just wanted to create something where it's easy for you to be able to plug and chug.

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You have the opportunity to create your own meal plan as well, and then you can share this with your family.

00:36:57.909 --> 00:37:02.711
And this actually goes right into another component of Cupply Fit, which is the two can do it.

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And with the two can do it.

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And I just wanted to touch on something you said on the meal planning.

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And it's okay if you need help, like if you're on that journey, and the two can do it.

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You're like, hey, I don't have a, two can do a partner.

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I don't have a workout buddy, I don't have a dog that can walk with me around the park.

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That's okay.

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It's okay to also invest in get a trainer, get a nutritionist, you know, find a meal plan.

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And when you think about that investment, it's just like that car right when we talk about look at it like an oil change, look at it like you're.

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You know you're changing out your tires and you're making sure that you're running smoothly.

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But just, I just think about the examples right, where a guy go get a haircut and spend money on a haircut every week but maybe won't invest in a trainer right the ladies might go get those nails done and drop a hundred hundred twenty dollars on

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a fresh set, but wouldn't necessarily spend 75 to 100 on a meal plan they can use for the whole year.

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So I would just say, think about where you can also invest your time, because your family is going to appreciate you feeling better, living longer, like that's going to be remembered and you're going to also feel better about the compliments like hey, oh my gosh, are you like looking younger, or whatever.

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You're going to remember that even more than maybe like oh, nice nails, you know or for the fellas nice hair.

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I'm just saying it's going to enhance the haircut.

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Your hands looking slimmer yes, that's true.

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Just again, that's the haircut, you're right.

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Your hands looking slimmer yes, that's true, just again.

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Investing into your health and looking at where am I spending my money and is this where my money should be spent?

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Is this a want or a need?

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A need?

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Is your health A want?

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Is that cute bag or the you know nice car that just came out?

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Those are wants, not necessarily needs, right?

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Nice car that just came out?

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Those are wants, not necessarily needs, right?

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So then, um, like, like, we mentioned that you can do a component.

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When we had our clients, when we were doing our bootcamps, we would always pair them up into either twos or into groups, and so couple of fit means two or more feeling better together, and so it's about having that motivation, accountability and connection, and the more that you can have that there is a greater chance of you not only sticking to the routine that you have, but then also the motivation piece, because that's a lot of times where we struggle, right, like there are so many things that are happening in this world and in our daily lives that it's like I'm just not motivated to go get active or to you know, just drink more water or be worried about my nutrition.

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Like I just want to door dash it Right and so the more that you can have somebody where it's like hey girl, I'm going to text you.

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I'm texting you right now because I'm feeling like I want to order from DoorDash.

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In-n-out is sounding really good right now.

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Or I just left In-N-Out.

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Or that too, we walk later right.

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Can we walk later?

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or I need you to talk me out of this, right, I just need somebody else that's going to be there where I'm not in my mind circulating.

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Well, should I have it, but I want it, but should I have it, but I want it?

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But I have a summer body, right, because you, now you have that talk track in your head and you need somebody that will help you and just say we have these goals, goals.

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It's summer around the corner.

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We want to make sure that we're looking snatched right, and so let's, um, let's maybe choose an alternative.

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Summer bodies made in the fall.

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I feel like there's so many gems that we dropped in this one episode.

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Yes, yes, so the two can do.

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A component is critical.

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Having a partner that you're able to talk to and invest in is fantastic.

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So we talked a little bit about the lifestyle change that comes with.

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You know the swan.

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The two can do it, setting those SMART goals, but the level one is just swap.

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It's really like swapping healthy items.

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That's what we briefly touched on before.

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If you are typically doing fried, let's switch it to grilled.

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If you're having sodas, let's try to switch it to a water or diet or diet, right, If you are again, if you're not getting active and you are more sedentary at your desk, try getting up and doing a 10 minute walk during lunch or doing walking meetings.

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That's something that we really enjoy.

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Um, when it comes to your sleep, having the ability to be able to uh, it comes to your sleep having the ability to be able to take some more rest, maybe in between meetings, where you're putting your phone to the side, you're not looking at any screens, maybe you just walk outside and just enjoy the breeze or the birds chirping, right, Something like that to be able to help your mind in that sense.

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But then level two is let's take it a step further.

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Mind in that sense.

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But then level two is let's take it a step further.

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So we're making those healthy choices.

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But now what do I do in that second level?

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And typically that's where we start seeing people take that extra step of I'm going to start cooking from home.

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And now, when you start cooking from home, you're experimenting, right, You're starting to see, like, actually, you know what I've really been enjoying this?

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You know, um, this Asian dish that I love at this one restaurant.

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Let me see if I can make it at home.

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And now you're building your confidence when it comes to nutrition and it's like oh, you know what, Let me.

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I was doing maybe an orange chicken before.

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Let me try to turn that into a grilled chicken.

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Let me add in, you know, these are all things that I've done.

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Exactly, exactly.

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And so that level two is taking those items that you enjoy, that are when you go out, and turning them into meals at home and cooking at home, because you don't realize that when you go out you're not in control of what that restaurant is putting into your food Right, when it comes to salt, sugar and other items but you are in control when you're cooking at home, and then you're also going to be saving more money with you know don't get me wrong inflation, but if you're eating out every day, that's adding up.

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Oh my goodness.

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But if I just do a bulk order right Of something and to have that in house, then it makes it a lot easier.

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Same when it comes to you know, your sleep, your water and activity right.

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It's okay, I've been in the gym.

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I maybe I'm only walking on the treadmill.

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Let me take it a step further and try out the elliptical.

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Let me try out the stair master.

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Let me add in a little bit more strength training.

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Maybe even getting a trainer.

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Correct, correct.

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And then that's that.

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Third level is, typically, you've created a lifestyle change to where now I have these certain habits that are set.

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I'm eating from home, I'm switching to, you know, water or a healthier option when it comes to drinks, I am getting active and I'm staying active consistently, and now it's just like, okay, how can I just make a little tweaks to the lifestyle change that I just made and be able to stay consistent?

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And so this is also where we start seeing that kids love to start getting involved and they will hold you accountable.

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We had many clients in the past where you know they were out, you know creating these changes, and they're getting their kids involved, cause it's like, honestly, like I can't leave you at home by yourself.

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You've got to come with me to go hiking or like on this walk, or I just want to enjoy your company.

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Yeah.

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And so then your children will actually start saying to you hey, we're, we're due for that walk.

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We know we're due.

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Hey, I saw you.

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You know you've had a couple of fried pieces of chicken lately.

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We need to get back to our grilled chicken.

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And so we've seen that time and time again with families where it starts at the couple level and then it just breathes down to the kids.

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Yeah, and the better that you're feeling, the more that you're going to want to engage with the kids as well.

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So now you're maybe out at practice throwing the ball a little bit more.

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You're out playing catch and doing those things too, so it becomes even more of a routine into what you're doing with your family and there's more engagement, which is really a blessing.

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Yes, and all of this is going to help you get closer to your summer body, but again, it takes time.

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Going back to those SMART goals, make sure that you are they're achievable like, first and foremost and yes, measurable, specific, relevant and time bound.

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But we just want to make sure that we are giving ourselves grace on this journey.

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It's not easy, especially when you are trying to make the lifestyle changes that will inhibit you to move forward in your health journey.

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But, again, it takes time.

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Give yourself that time to be able to make the adjustments.

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If you slip up, that's fine.

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Don't beat yourself over the head with it.

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Just keep engaging.

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Just keep trying, just keep trying.

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The more that you try, the more that you engage, the better off that you're going to be.

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It's a marathon, not a sprint.

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Amen to that.

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So thank you so much, cupply Fit fam, for listening.

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