Faith, Vision, and the Money Mindset
A successful marriage isn’t just about how much money you make. It’s about building something meaningful together—starting with faith, a shared vision, and a healthy approach to finances as a team.
In our latest podcast episode, we talked about what happens when couples stop asking, “How much do we need?” and start asking, “What kind of marriage are we building?” That simple shift can change everything.
Faith comes first.
When couples center their relationship around faith, they build a stronger foundation. It doesn’t mean you can’t pursue financial goals. People like Kirk Cousins and Tim Tebow show that you can stay grounded in your beliefs while building wealth. Daily habits like praying together, reading scripture, or asking, “What is God calling us to do?” help couples stay aligned.
Next is vision.
Having a shared vision gives your marriage direction. Vision boards can be a helpful tool—not just for personal goals, but for joint ones. Think about your dreams for faith, family, health, and finances. Keep it simple. Set a few clear goals you can work toward together.
Money mindset matters.
Talking about budgets is one thing. Shifting how you think about money is another. This could mean reflecting on your spending habits or learning to tell the difference between wants and needs. As Robert F. Smith Jr. once said, many successful families had everything they needed, but not everything they wanted. That mindset helps couples make better long-term choices.
Build a legacy, not just a lifestyle.
Social media shows off flashy lifestyles, but that’s not the goal. Legacy-focused couples ask, “Will this decision help us build something lasting?” Sometimes saying “not now” to a purchase creates space for something more meaningful later. It takes discipline, but it’s worth it.
Practice financial intimacy.
This means setting shared goals, checking in regularly, and offering grace instead of guilt. Pick a calm time—like over coffee—to talk about money. Be honest, be kind, and support each other as you grow. Change takes time, and encouragement helps more than pressure.
Emotional wealth matters most.
Couples who have been through tough seasons know peace is more valuable than a number in the bank. When you support each other, celebrate small wins, and stay rooted in your faith and purpose, you build something far more powerful than wealth. You build a marriage that lasts.
